Employment
Answering hard interview questions about gaps and discharge
5 min read · Written for: Veterans with an employment gap, a treatment period, or a difficult discharge.
Three sentences, in this order: what happened, what changed, what you do now. Practice it out loud until it is boring.
Step 1
Write the three-sentence answer
Sentence one names the fact without drama. Sentence two names the change — treatment, coursework, a program, a sponsor. Sentence three is what your week looks like now.
Step 2
Practice it aloud six times
Say it to a mentor, a caseworker, and once into your phone's recorder. The goal is a flat, calm delivery — the tone tells them more than the content.
Step 3
Redirect to the work
End with a question about the role: shift patterns, tools, the first 90 days. That moves the conversation forward instead of leaving silence to fill.
Step 4
Know what you do not have to disclose
Medical details and diagnoses are yours. You can describe a 'period of treatment' and stop there. If an accommodation would help, request the accommodation, not the diagnosis.
What to bring
- Written three-sentence answer
- Six rehearsals, at least two with another person
- Two questions ready to ask the interviewer
- One reference who can speak to your reliability now
Common mistakes
- Over-explaining, which reads as unresolved.
- Lying about dates — background checks find dates.
- Disclosing a diagnosis when you meant to request a schedule change.
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